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Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Mumbaikar to Londoner – a month on


Let me just restrict to one or will get late” thought me as I iron-pressed the shirt and readied in the morning to catch the 8:27 am train to office. As I was leaving, Roshni gave me a bag of garbage to be thrown into the communal garbage-bin downstairs my building… With the garbage now disposed off, I commence my office journey, a 7-8 minutes walk to the station followed by a 35 min tube ride and then a 8-10 min walk to Office, all-in time of about a 50-55 mins.. My daily newspaper is available free of cost at the train station, which I digest in the 35-min train ride.. Later in the evening, as I leave office, Roshni calls up “get some milk, bread, tomatoes,etc etc..” on your way back.. So I go down to the local Tesco (shop ala Big Bazaar / More etc) to pick up the grocery list and head back to home

All the while, during the day, life at home has been more hectic… Roshni, after seeing-me off, had completed the day’s cooking, dish-washing, house cleaning, laundry apart from taking care of Arnav’s requirements.. She has also managed to take him to an activity centre so that he can play around with other kids… phew..all in a day!!

The above two paragraphs, while giving a brief account of the daily activities, goes on to prove “Bye Bye istri-walah, kaamwali bai, phone-a-supermarket, kachrawala, paperwala etc”… we are on our own. About a month ago, all these activities were outsourced

So one month in London, some might ask what’s the benefit in moving into a new city and increasing your burdens. Is it money? Maybe, but then thinking about the real money we would be saving, taking into account the high taxes, rentals and higher cost of living, it would not be materially higher than what was left back in Mumbai. So I don’t think if the journey was only for money, then definitely it is not really worth the chase

Then why?  The Mumbaikar in me would like to answer
“Now I am free from driving on the potholed roads, waiting after never-ending traffic, spending about 2-3 hours on burning petrol and time daily... I can see greenery all around, with lots of parks and gardens… hopefully I am going experience snow, a first in my lifetime … healthcare is free… education is free, so no worry about getting Arnav into a good school without donation and exorbitant school fees

What I have loved about London is its cosmopolitan nature. Never you feel you are in an alien country. I have seen other countries but you always feel like an outsider.. but somehow,  in London, you feel a lot closer to India.. On a funnier side, it is said that, as you arrive at Heathrow airport, you may have a feeling that you have accidently landed at Amritsar with the amount of Sikhs at the airport … a visit to Southall and Wembley would take you to Punjab and Gujarat respectively

This is the first time I am settling outside India - Mumbai to be more precise. Most of the trips made so far where for maximum of a one month stay where you stay in as a tourist. Now in London, the entire way of looking at things change. More than sight-seeing and tick-off from the standard to-do places, now we are feeling the life of the city - moving along with the crowds (well, what I mean by crowd is as per London standards which would be one/hundredth of Mumbai !!), opening bank accounts, registering at Municipal council, registering at health care center etc etc. Too many seemingly mundane, but very essential things

More blogs to follow on London and the life that it is….

Cheers

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